tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post882645885325082779..comments2023-10-03T16:38:23.503+03:00Comments on Wanjiku Unlimited: Misbehaving Dads Who Deserve No CelebrationShiko-Msahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11220304153256382144noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-2754412070895731452008-07-21T03:44:00.000+03:002008-07-21T03:44:00.000+03:00hey wanjiku we also invite you to come to eay and ...hey wanjiku we also invite you to come to eay and drop some of your articles hope to see you there than ksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-10050109463220734292008-07-21T03:41:00.000+03:002008-07-21T03:41:00.000+03:00hey wanjiku nice blog visit EAY http://www.eastafr...hey wanjiku nice blog <BR/>visit EAY <BR/>http://www.eastafricayote.com/index.phpAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-32339680847767706402008-06-20T16:03:00.000+03:002008-06-20T16:03:00.000+03:00Crates today I almost didn't know you. You betray...Crates today I almost didn't know you. You betrayed yourself with Shii at the end.<BR/><BR/>Anyway what you say is very true. It raises another topic for a whole different article which I'll try to do soon. Families go through so much stuff if walls could talk! <BR/><BR/>Thanks crates.Shiko-Msahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11220304153256382144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-3795852139447620862008-06-20T15:48:00.000+03:002008-06-20T15:48:00.000+03:00BPONE thanks for the links. I actually visited Mos...BPONE thanks for the links. I actually visited Mossavi and left a comment there. <BR/><BR/>Maua sad sad story. And these kids always seem to blame themselves poor things. <BR/><BR/>Nusumbili I second you. Thank God for the good dads who far outnumber these loonies. <BR/><BR/>Taabu whats that about the academies in West of Uhuru Highway? Is this true? very sad.Shiko-Msahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11220304153256382144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-57883948068131532672008-06-20T15:20:00.000+03:002008-06-20T15:20:00.000+03:00let me look this thing on a diffrent way 90% of pa...let me look this thing on a diffrent way 90% of parents who get kids have not planed for it..so basicaly 90% of the kids out there are a mistake. the finacial burden creeps in.. most parents stay 2gather coz of the kids so they feel traped another reason i think after pple get kids there love life or sex change completly n also u might find that the wife lves his boy(kid) and has no time for the hazi or the dad love his baby gal mbaka the wife feels Jealous yani kunavitu mob sana ma families go thru ama aje shiiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-79265822585692102342008-06-20T12:12:00.000+03:002008-06-20T12:12:00.000+03:00Should fathers be forced to babysit? Why father ch...Should fathers be forced to babysit? Why father children if you can not help look after them, and I don't mean paying someone to do the job for you.<BR/><BR/>2 days ago I watched a CSI episode where a man had done something similar to Josef Fritzl, only this time it was a 10 yr old boy he had abducted 9 yrs earlier,(the boy believed he was the dad) and had caged this boy, and used a webcam/internet to extort money from well wishers who felt sorry.<BR/><BR/>The poor boy thought he was being punished for being 'bad', and kept saying 'can I come out now, I promise I'll be good'.<BR/><BR/>It takes a few seconds to be a father, but a lifetime to be a dad. Myles Monroe, in his teachings on male/female relationships says that any man who announces his manhood 'head of the house' is a failure'. <BR/><BR/>Take your responsibilities seriously and the titles 'Man, father, husband, dad etc' are yours forever. 'Loving dad, good father etc may be added.Mauahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05023725207465310832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-34845997758723356342008-06-20T12:07:00.000+03:002008-06-20T12:07:00.000+03:00This comment has been removed by the author.Mauahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05023725207465310832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-70738333369768544192008-06-20T09:05:00.000+03:002008-06-20T09:05:00.000+03:00Wanjiku. Thanks for this informative piece. Can yo...Wanjiku. Thanks for this informative piece. Can you believe this? while you were busy writing this article, on 16th June 2008 (barely one day after fathers day ), a father was betting his Toto to death, fortunately, this time round justice was done on the spot. I mean the father was shot dead…. see link. http://www.spurstalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=99196.<BR/>midnitepreacherAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-86438573218395691712008-06-20T09:00:00.000+03:002008-06-20T09:00:00.000+03:00Shiko @ , I get your point, BTW ,I do baby sit my ...Shiko @ , I get your point, BTW ,I do baby sit my one month old baby, especially when her mum is just busy or tired. In fact I see the role of a father in the family setting as a religious obligation for details see this link http://mossavi.wordpress.com/2008/06/16/fathers-day-midwestern-muslim-dad/. What I am asking is,soon or later the 2 weeks paternity leave will become effective, am sure many fathers will be taking that leave but will not be there at home to help the mums. Is there away of making it compulsory for fathers to baby sit? If the answer is no, then why should they take the leave for?BP 1https://www.blogger.com/profile/09618076154520255599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-12218907848006022802008-06-19T21:01:00.000+03:002008-06-19T21:01:00.000+03:00atleast for every horrible father there are about ...atleast for every horrible father there are about 10,000 good ones thank God for them!Half n Halfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08658914927824319438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-32202546908126887272008-06-19T18:05:00.000+03:002008-06-19T18:05:00.000+03:00Dad or father?Sometimes I am left looking for the ...Dad or father?<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I am left looking for the invisible THIRD GENDER. Not to be accused of genralities just remove men from this planet and you have no war and all happiness. <BR/><BR/>To most fathers (no dads please) kids are mere biological accidents from their emotional indulgement. the IDD (beast) in men is more pronounced than even in wild animals. No wonder with midlife crisis they start ogling the daughter seeing her mum's ex-beauty in the girl. <BR/><BR/>Ciku you call that zero grazing? Well we have vermy many local Josefs. Just vissit the academies west of Uhuru Highway and you will have more than 40% incest products.Taabuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04559980653513330275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-25273856914637025372008-06-19T11:55:00.000+03:002008-06-19T11:55:00.000+03:00Acolate the good dad will not be overshadowed dont...Acolate the good dad will not be overshadowed dont worry. Rewards for good parenting are very many.<BR/><BR/>Sayra you're so right. Good responsible dads are a must for a more harmonious world. BPONE being a good father involves so much more than providing financial assistance. Just generally loving your kids and being nice to them. If their mum is not in a position to baby sit and you're free then why not? Fatherhood is becoming more open not like the traditional role of father keeps off.<BR/><BR/>Mcheku you're lucky.Shiko-Msahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11220304153256382144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-20414160347392542552008-06-19T08:02:00.000+03:002008-06-19T08:02:00.000+03:00Sayra you are right, but can anyone tell me the ro...Sayra you are right, but can anyone tell me the roles and responsibility of a father in the family setting...be it legal, social or religious. Apart from providing financial assistance what else should a father do? For example if he refuses to baby set his Child,(when the mum is not in a position to do that ) can he sued or cursed ?BP 1https://www.blogger.com/profile/09618076154520255599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-58251792880474797712008-06-19T03:46:00.000+03:002008-06-19T03:46:00.000+03:00life variance...things balance themselves out but ...life variance...things balance themselves out but we always hope that goodness soars above all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-25520960977218791862008-06-19T00:15:00.000+03:002008-06-19T00:15:00.000+03:00The cases above represent classic examples of over...The cases above represent classic examples of overgrown boys and undergrown men who are mad. How on earth do you put a person in a freezer or a microwave oven or ask a 10yr old to go for a pregnancy test (ok, i know ... she can also get paged, lakini ...).<BR/><BR/>At the risk of sounding an escapist, i will say if fathers took their roles in the family settings with responsibility, we would be in a better world .. a more harmonious world in every aspect - from social to economic to political to everything else.Sayrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04042988569205356143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-71080238494327737442008-06-18T17:56:00.000+03:002008-06-18T17:56:00.000+03:00Honestly there are some things that one shouldn't ...Honestly there are some things that one shouldn't laugh about but aii....who puts a child in a refrigerator? a freezer? and a microwave? These men must not have been normal!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Thank goodness for the good fathers out there and I am proud to say mine is one of the best if not the best!Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00288215409363459147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-23863417629398464622008-06-18T15:30:00.000+03:002008-06-18T15:30:00.000+03:00Sadly there are many bad fathers out there and the...Sadly there are many bad fathers out there and they take away the shine from the great ones out there who do anything for their children.Acolytehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03673179447438729227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4373373952959068614.post-19486786137701562622008-06-18T13:29:00.000+03:002008-06-18T13:29:00.000+03:00Shiko. This is a sad story. I consider all the fou...Shiko. This is a sad story. I consider all the four cases as torture. Just can't imagine how one can maltreat his Children and expects them to call him Dad.BP 1https://www.blogger.com/profile/09618076154520255599noreply@blogger.com